I want to confess the fact that I am feebleness. Sometimes, I can't solve the hard problems I faced. To solve a problem, I need to speak with someone to understand the reason of the problem better while I'm telling about it and get pieces of advice.
I depend on someone. Or I don't?
I don't know. I just know that sometimes I need help, therefore I am feebleness.
Why do I think that my need for help is feebleness?
That's okay to ask for help because we are all human. Sometimes we are stuck with problems and want to solve it as soon as possible.
Why is it hard to ask someone for help or for advice? Who did decide that it's a weakness?
— It's only in your mind. Everyone thinks that asking for help or advice is good. --- said Olesya's voice in the head.
Maybe, does it mean that it will be not my work? Maybe, is it a fear of lack of independence?
Yeah, I think that I (and other people) afraid of a hard problem and lack of independence. Hm, maybe, we are afraid of failure and inability to solve the problem?
When we think that we are feebleness, we become a victim of the situation. It makes difficult to solve the problem we faced. So, we should think that we are feebleness for 5 minutes, then forget about it and start solving the problem!
You are what you think about yourself.