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May 18, 2019 21:14:33

Empathy

by @monolesan | 216 words | 🐣 | 171πŸ’Œ

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Empathy. How do you empathize? Usually people empathize not right, because when a friend tells about a problem, people try to give an advice. But here is a problem because they look on the problem from their opinion and their personality, position. 

For example:

"I fall in love with this girl. She is my crush. When I see her I even can't speak, her beauty makes me sick. I should write to her... But I don't know how to start a conversation." β€” a guy tells a problem to his friend.

And a friend who when falls in love with somebody and usually don't speak with his crushes says: "Hey, don't do it. It's stupid to write to her."

What's happened? He started to give a piece of advice and he gave an advice based on his position. 

He thinks that his friend is a person who he knows well, but it's not.

About me: to be honest I can't truly empathize like a lot people in.the world, because I give piece of advice to my friends with problems. I start to treat people.

So, as I already wrote, one of the components of emotional intelligence is empathy. And when you can empathy you can build better relationship with people.

I will write about empathy soon.

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    @monolesan yes that's not empathy. that's just irritating unsolicited advice.

    Jason Leow avatar Jason Leow | May 19, 2019 13:18:25
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