I have two kids, and both are boys. Before that happen since my wife side has twins before, my wife and I hope that we can have twins at first, one boy and one girl then it can settle for all, do it just one time. We never know taking care of kids is a massive responsibility after having our kid and seeing how my friend struggle with twins. I glad that our firstborn is not a twin.
Two years after that, We are trying again so that the big kids can have a company, this round we hope that have a girl so that we can close the shop after that, the perfect combination. But we are getting another boy.
I understand for some parents are miserable when they hope to have boys but keep getting all girls, but I wish to have a little girl. People are saying daughter is your past life lover, could that be I m alone without a lover for the past life?
My wife and I do discuss on this before, shall we have a 3rd kid, she does hope to give me a daughter, but at the same time, she is tired of this whole getting pregnant, give birth, breastfeed and growing the young baby cycle again.
I come up with a few scenarios if we going have the 3rd kid.
- a girl - best result
- a boy - ok no choice
- twin girls - good but life will be a struggle
- twin boys - this will stress us
Can't decide on this and rational thinking should be stopped here now with my two boys.