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Mar 17, 2019 16:59:20

do you want to get married?

by @lucjah PATRON | 287 words | 46🔥 | 323💌

Lucjah

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we are TOGETHER, feel happy, close, peaceful, hopeful, stumble upon a problem, talk, fight, disagree, agree, feel happy, close, peaceful, hopeful, misunderstand each other, get lost, see no options, talk, hate each other, sulk, fight, talk, understand each other, see options, cannot agree, agree, feel happy, close, peaceful, hopeful, hurt each other, fight, pass blame, talk, get fed up, sulk, talk more, fight more, find a way, feel happy, close, peaceful, hopeful, have an issue, get upset, angry, misunderstand each other, fight, talk, fight, hate each other, feel happy, close, peaceful, hopeful...

we share time, joy, sadness, money, problems, decisions;

we are transparent, because in the marriage NOTHING HAS A CHANCE TO STAY HIDDEN, not for long! Shit just pops up sooner or later, one way, or another, whether we want that or not, and when it happens not at the moment we choose to share it, but in an uncontrolled environment and timing, it can really fuck up everything, EVERYTHING. Because the shit itself is a life problem, to be dealt with as a couple, hiding the shit is like building a wall, suddenly there is NO TOGETHER.

we let the other have an opinion, even if we don't like it;

we discuss, for as long as it takes for both of us to (have at least an illusion that we) understand;

WE MAKE DECISIONS TOGETHER, which means we work on them as long as it takes for both of us to agree.

WORKING RELATIONSHIP OF TWO EQUAL PARTNERS

HAPPY MARRIAGE 

is not a quiet happiness of peaceful life! Because there is no end to the work, to the problems, fuck ups, fights, miscommunication, to the joy, to the TOGETHER...


Do you want to get married?

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  • 1

    @lucjah - an interesting response would be -- what is all this like from just one side ( say the person was single )

    Brian Ball avatar Brian Ball | Mar 18, 2019 07:32:32
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      @brianball You mean like "getting married staying single"?!
      (But actually I imagine that many of the above happens in one persons mind... the happiness, he fights, the agree, cannot agree.. well, at least my mind keeps me busy with all that... Also as I understand there are people who marry... themselves UAU to them)

      Lucjah avatar Lucjah | Mar 18, 2019 23:23:05
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    @lucjah - as they might say in Brasil- UAU!

    Brian Ball avatar Brian Ball | Mar 18, 2019 07:30:03
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    @lucjah ? yes. Thank you. ❤️

    PhilH avatar PhilH | Mar 17, 2019 23:20:42
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      @philh hihi <3

      Lucjah avatar Lucjah | Mar 18, 2019 13:24:50
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