I am truly convinced now that my gf does not believe in Disney Love. In fact, she finds it lame and naive. This used to make me sad, because I so wanted to share the same type of love. But these days I've come to truly understand and feel that she doesn't believe or value the standard type of love, which I like to define as Disney Love.
Ironically, before when I was all sad about this situation was when I didn't understand her, or at least disagreed with her. It's only now that I finally understand her viewpoint that I feel nothing negative about this. Now that I know that she doesn't believe in Disney Love... now that I can feel it, it no longer matters to me that she doesn't have Disney Love for me while at the same time I still feel 100% satisfied giving that kind of love to her.
It's one of the maturing things I've come to conquer lately. This ability to let go of this notion that a love between two people must be the same -- not just in magnitude but also in type. These days I'm living with the same blind Disney Love I grew up on. And I love it!